So when someone is treating you in a negative way or acting in a negative way it’s because they know how , blame it on upbringing, parenting, experiences, perception, spirituality and etc. yes when you know better you do better , but does that necessarily mean that all know where to start or how to break the generational curse or cycle … we get into patterns as a person but the morals , standards & beliefs on how you should treat others & how you want to be treated will different from person to person !