It’s not just that being a people pleaser makes you a target for a lot of unwarranted abuse and manipulation from people who see you for what you are, and exploit your personality and malleable rationale – being a people pleaser means you’re always willingly pulling yourself out of the spotlight, and out of the way of real recognition and the accolades you deserve. People pleasers will do what they can not only to help everyone, but they’ll do nothing when they fall into obscurity.