Sometimes two people meet and feel an undeniable connection but have to go their separate ways because they know it's not the right moment. All you can do is let go with grace and see if there will be another moment when they meet again at a better time. Blaming or victimisation can never bring about such a moment. You have to be able to be good with yourself in order to experience a good moment with another person. If you can't do that, reproach will never allow that perfect timing to happen.