Menobodies

Perimenopause with my daughters as guests - truth, honesty and laughter


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☕ Welcome
Imagine we’re sitting around the kitchen table. Maybe there’s a snack half-eaten, someone interrupting us, a little chaos in the background — and today, two very special guests joining the conversation.This episode is different. It’s personal. It’s honest. And it involves the people who live closest to my perimenopause journey… my girls.

👋 Intro Me
I’m your host, mom in perimenopause, learning in real time how to navigate hormones, emotions, hot flashes, and everything in between — while raising daughters who are watching it all unfold.Today felt like the perfect time to open the conversation with them.

📜 Ground Rules
Before we started, we set some simple rules:
  • No question is weird or off limits.

  • We can laugh.

  • We can say “I don’t know.”

  • We can be honest.

  • We respect each other.

And most importantly — we stay kind.

🌸 Questions
  • How does menopause start? What ages does it usually happen?

  • How fast do hormones change?
  • What’s “the patch”?

  • Is perimenopause the same thing as menopause?

  • What’s it actually like living with a mom in perimenopause?

💛 Topics We Covered
  • The hormone patch (how it works and why some women use it).

  • The difference between perimenopause (the transition years) and menopause (the point after 12 months without a period).
  • The hormone patch (how it works and why some women use it).

  • The difference between perimenopause (the transition years) and menopause (the point after 12 months without a period).

💬 From the Girls: What It’s Like

What’s it like since Mom entered perimenopause?

Hard times:
  • Mood swings.

  • Moments when I’m more sensitive.

  • Times when I need quiet or space.

Funny times:
  • Mom laughs so hard now

How does Dad feel?
  •  We talked about how partners adjust too. Sometimes confused. Sometimes supportive. Sometimes both.

What’s hard?
  • The unpredictability.

What’s a benefit?
  • Getting more things from mom

  • Instagram famous

🌿 Why This Episode Matters

This wasn’t just cute content.

It was modeling:
  • That bodies change.

  • That women’s health isn’t shameful.

  • That questions are welcome.

  • That daughters deserve to understand what’s ahead.

And maybe most importantly — that menopause isn’t something we whisper about in the hallway.

✨ Anything Else?

The girls reminded me that:
  • Kids notice more than we think.

  • Humor helps.

  • Honesty builds trust.

And sometimes the best education happens at the kitchen table.

💛 Exit
Thank you for joining this very special conversation.If you’re a mom in perimenopause, you are not alone.
If you’re raising daughters, your openness is shaping their future.
If you’re somewhere in between — welcome.

See you next time, Menobodies.

Connect with Beth:
💌 Email: [email protected] 
📱 Instagram & Facebook: @menobodies
🌐 Website: www.menobodies.com/home
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MenobodiesBy Beth Lohman