In this episode of the Grateful Not Greedy™ podcast, hosts Kris and Rachel explore the often-overlooked role of play in adulthood. They reflect on how societal expectations gradually discourage play, framing it as unproductive or childish, and how this loss impacts creativity, joy, and connection.

Rachel shares her personal journey of rediscovering play through guilt-free, unstructured fun, while Kris reflects on childhood curiosity and the pressures that teach us to outgrow it. Together, they discuss how play—whether spontaneous adventures, creative expression, or simple silliness—can serve as a powerful form of self-love and a gateway to deeper relationships.

The conversation encourages listeners to embrace their inner child, find “play buddies,” and intentionally create rituals that bring lightness back into everyday life. Ultimately, the episode invites a mindset shift: play isn’t a luxury—it’s essential.

Chapters

The Importance of Play for Adults

Many of us associate play with childhood, often dismissing it as something meant only for kids. Rachel highlights a critical observation: "Kids in school right now, recess is like minimal. It keeps getting taken away." This lack of emphasis on play begins at a young age and, unfortunately, continues into adulthood, leading many of us to forget to prioritize joy and creativity in our lives.

Rediscovering Our Inner Child

Rachel shares a personal experience that resonates with many adults. She recalls a recent interaction with a six-year-old, saying, "I really like my six-year-old self. I love the curiosity of it." This sentiment reflects the natural inquisitiveness and joy that children possess, which often fades as we grow older. Rachel emphasizes the need to tap into that playful spirit daily, stating, "I want to play every day. How do I make that happen?"

The Guilt of Not Being Productive

One of the barriers to embracing play as adults is the guilt associated with it. Rachel admits, "There's a part of me that's like guilty because it's not productive." This feeling is common; many adults struggle with the idea that leisure time must always be productive. Kris counters this notion by acknowledging the freedom and joy that comes from unstructured play, encouraging listeners to let go of guilt and embrace fun.

Creating Playful Moments

The podcast also discusses how play can manifest in everyday life, using a humorous story about a Fourth of July celebration. Kris recalls a spontaneous adventure with friends: "We pile into whoever's car and go off to some random spot that you can barely see to get to the golf course." Such unplanned moments are where play thrives, showcasing the joy that can come from spontaneity and connection.

Bringing Play into Daily Life

Both hosts encourage listeners to seek out playfulness in their lives. Rachel notes, "I have people that I have brought into my world that are more playful," suggesting that surrounding ourselves with playful individuals can inspire us to embrace that same spirit. They highlight the simple joy of being silly, laughing, and engaging in activities that might seem trivial but bring genuine happiness.

Conclusion:

Key takeaways include the importance of rediscovering our playful selves, embracing spontaneity, and surrounding ourselves with playful individuals. Let’s commit to making space for play in our daily lives.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Play

01:27 The Importance of Play for Adults

03:13 Rediscovering Childhood Curiosity

08:07 Creating Space for Play

12:42 Defining Personal Play

15:39 Play as a Reset for Mental Well-Being

19:18 The Complex Nature of Play

23:15 The Societal View on Play

23:53 The Importance of Play in Adult Life

25:20 Finding Your Unique Form of Play

28:47 Creating Rituals Around Play

30:58 Inviting Others to Play

39:18 The Role of Play in Family Dynamics

45:46 Play as a Form of Self-Love