Mary has about a decade of experience under her belt on dating apps and like the rest of us, is exhausted! She touches on the pressures to settle down being a year away from 40, the undesirable things that happen on first dates and the weird encounter she had with a guy who admitted to being 'very close' with his mom.  Mary also reminds us that it is okay to own your singlehood and that she is feeling more confident than ever by doing so.