The intention of the Father for marriage is far bigger in its purpose and intentions than what it has been reduced to today. Perspective, motive, and agenda must be corrective and adjusted based on heaven’s original intention. Many of the things we talk about in relating to marriage, for example, issue of responsibility, compatibility, status difference, beauty, attraction, educational bar ground, choices, provision, financial sustenance, attitudes, emotional fulfillment, e.g., sex, career, where to live, having children, and raising children, adoption, culture difference, and the list goes on are all secondary issues.   There’s more to marriage from the author of marriage’s perspective, and I guess, it is his perspective we should be seeking for and not the resumed or imposed perspective of man’s tradition