This episode looks at Philemon 1:8, “Accordingly, though I am bold enough in Christ to command you to do what is required.” Paul wants Philemon to act in accordance with his character and to refresh him by receiving Philemon as a brother not a bondservant. He has the boldness to command him to do so, but ultimately chooses to appeal rather than command. May we have the boldness to command when necessary and the wisdom to appeal when boldness is not necessary.