* Married couples should apply these verses to their relationship.

* Imagine how your spouse would respond if you wrote a letter like what Paul wrote to the Philippians.

* It starts off with him thinking fondly of them. Notice his thoughts:

* 1) Thankful (vs 3) - gratitude breaks down emotional walls.

* 2) Prayerful (vs 4a) - your spouse is your top priority in prayer.

* 3) Joyful (vs 4b) - if you don’t feel joy you need to re-joy by giving of yourself to your spouse (like Hannah).

* 4) Fellowship (vs 5) - “friendly association, especially with people who share one’s interest.” Be buddies and do things together.

* 5) Confidence (vs 6) - trusting that God is doing something in your spouse and He can be trusted. Also granting trust to your spouse.

* vs 7a - Paul recognizes it’s right to think these things of those he’s ministering to.

* 6) Empathy (vs 7) - “we’re in this together.” Turn toward your spouse.

* 7) Affectionate (vs 8) - we need to long for our spouse with loving affection. Appreciation leads to affection.