Family is important, so picking the right life partner is critical. Life throws you a lot of curveballs and kids can also add an extra level of complications. If you have a good partner by your side, then your challenges and your business will be easier to bear when things get tough. Gabe and Ryan give their best “married guy” life advice and Jon shares what he’d like to find in a woman.

 

Key Takeaways:

• Your family is more important than your business. However, your business will do better if you marry the right woman.
• It is your internal environment that makes you happy, not your external circumstances.
• If you come home to a toxic environment, it’s very difficult to focus on what matters in your business.
• What is a perfect relationship?
• Men identify themselves with their wives’ happiness. You need to get rid of this notion.
• You can’t make the other person happy.
• Should you and your wife have separate bank accounts?
• Does your spouse make good financial decisions?
• Do you want a spouse that has no desire to work?
• Some women end up losing their identity when they stay home and work. These are things men need to be aware of.
• Gabe doesn’t think a woman is designed to stay at home all day with the kids. She needs hobbies, activities, a life outside of the family. Of course, it depends on the woman.
• Ryan married young. You aren’t truly married until you have kids because it really tests your relationship to a new level.
• According to a study, people who live together prior to getting married end up having a high rate of failure in their relationship.
• If Ryan could do it over, he would have liked to space out having children and being able to enjoy more of the fruits of their labor first.
• Gabe can relate. He almost got divorced because he was grinding in his business and had three kids within four to five years. Don’t stress yourself out like that.

 

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