Overfunctioning is a term that describes doing for others what they can and should do for themselves. Art, Lacie, and Wes discuss the benefits of overfunctioning and the problems that can occur. This is a discussion of Geri Scazerro's book The Emotionally Healthy Woman. It is recommended, though, for men and women alike. You can listen to Geri Scazerro's chapter, "Quit Overfunctioning," at the following links:

https://www.emotionallyhealthy.org/podcast/detail/Stop-Fixing-Your-Church-Part-1/?v=7516fd43adaa

And:

https://www.emotionallyhealthy.org/podcast/detail/Stop-Fixing-Your-Church-Part-2/?v=7516fd43adaa