Join me and my partner(s) every other week for a special spinoff of Unacceptable Behavior, dedicated to discussing our relationship dynamic. Patrick, Robert, and Braelin are a family... But what does that mean, exactly? Are we a throuple? A triad? Polyamorous? Polyandrous? Is marriage on the table? Family and kids? Is everyone in our situation happy?

Today, for the first time, the three of us sit down and talk through the dirty details of our situation, family dynamics, learning how to live with each other, discussions on being future parents, and least importantly... who is the father?

(But most importantly... Why do you ask?)

While we do disclose our decision as to who the biological father of our child would be, the more important question to us is: why are people so curious? If both men are portraying the role of father, then what is your curiosity behind the question "who's the biological dad?"

Is it because you want to know what our daughter is going to call them? (dad)

Is it because you have concerns about the health risk associated with either of their family histories? (you do not need to know the health status of our daughter unless is directly affects you)

Is it because you feel like you deserve to know who came in me? (I have a feeling it's this one.)

Honestly, I continue to wonder this every time that question is presented to us (which is far more often than appropriate, might I add). Mostly, I think it's important that folks deeply consider my counter question before you listen to this episode to feed your morbid curiosity: WHY DO YOU ASK?

I humbly ask that you ponder my question as you sit back and listen in on our first full-family discussion on Pizza and Polyamory #4 - Who's the Father?

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