Divorce or pending divorce is all around me these days. Back to our mission - divorced and not destroyed! This week we are talking about the early steps when you are facing a potential divorce (hint: Get a lawyer). We all think we will be the beacons of society when getting divorced, but sprinkle some emotions in there, splitting a 401K and welcome to a volcanic eruption. Let's let calmer heads prevail and make a few notes to help ourselves and our friends manage this difficult road. Hate list will keep things light- how about we end MBA jargon and g-string bathing suits?