Pleasure Playbook

Pleasure Playbook

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  • Turned-On Women Get Everything They Desire—Here’s How | EP 19


    In this solo episode of The Pleasure Playbook Podcast, Steph reveals the hidden key to magnetism, confidence, and success—your feminine sexual energy. But this isn’t just about pleasure. It’s about activating your full power to create a life that feels aligned, radiant, and deeply fulfilling.


    Steph unpacks the 6 biggest blocks that keep women disconnected from their turn-on—people-pleasing, fear of being too much, mothering men, comparison, victim mentality, and the Disney princess fantasy. She shares her personal journey of transformation and how reclaiming her sexuality changed everything.


    This episode is an invitation to step into your most turned-on, embodied, and powerful self—because when a woman is lit up, she transforms her entire life.


    💡 Inside this episode, you'll discover:

    • How sexual energy fuels confidence, success & attraction
    • Why pleasure is a direct path to feminine power
    • The 6 hidden blocks to your pleasure & power (and how to release them)
    • How to reconnect with your body & regulate your nervous system
    • Journal prompts to redefine what love means to you


    ⏳ Episode Breakdown:
    00:00 Introduction to Turn On for Women
    01:18 The Power of Sexual Energy
    02:20 Living Fully Alive
    03:19 Pleasure as a Way of Life
    04:41 Connecting with Your Body
    11:20 Personal Journey and Transformation
    19:15 The 6 Hidden Blocks to Pleasure & Power
    33:29 Embracing Your Erotic Energy
    41:28 Journal Prompts: Redefining Love & Final Thoughts


    To explore the sexual fantasies episode, tune into episode 18 here.


    💋 Ready to go deeper? Join Steph in her free Turned On Masterclass and learn how to fully embrace your feminine power, dive in here.


    Come hang out with us on instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@pleasure_playbook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or email us privately at [email protected] with your thoughts, reflections or questions. We love hearing from you.


    If you found value in this episode, pleasure share it with a friend or leave a comment on Spotify. This means so much to us!


    Connect with Steph:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamstephmorris⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠stephmorris.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Connect with Jenna:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamjennamiller⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠jennamiller.ca⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    45 min
  • Unlocking Your Hottest Fantasies and Why They're Your Path to Freedom | EP18

    In this episode of Pleasure Playbook, we dive into sexual fantasies. The discussion covers the importance of acknowledging and embracing sexual fantasies as a key aspect of sexual wellness and pleasure. Listeners are guided through exercises to identify and script out their own fantasies, and we hear about the profound impact of sharing these intimate desires in a safe, supportive space. We also touch on societal shame, the healing potential of fantasies, and the distinction between fantasy and reality. The episode wraps up with practical tips for exploring fantasies safely and respectfully.

    Come hang out with us on instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@pleasure_playbook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or email us privately at [email protected] with your thoughts, reflections or questions. We love hearing from you.


    If you found value in this episode, pleasure share it with a friend or leave a comment on Spotify. This means so much to us!


    Connect with Steph:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamstephmorris⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠stephmorris.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Connect with Jenna:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamjennamiller⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠jennamiller.ca⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Timestamps:00:00 Introduction and Retreat Recap01:14 Exploring Sexual Fantasies02:53 Fantasy Writing Exercise04:44 Sharing and Discussing Fantasies06:03 Understanding and Embracing Fantasies08:08 Practical Tips for Exploring Fantasies23:31 The Power of Vulnerability and Expression28:04 Conclusion and Invitation

    34 min
  • The Pleasure Blueprint: How to Be an Incredible Lover | EP17

    The Pleasure Playbook: How to Be a Better Lover


    In this episode of Pleasure Playbook, hosts Steph and Jenna delve into becoming a better lover. They discuss how societal shame impacts conversations about sex and share personal anecdotes, emphasizing that sex is deeply connected with every aspect of life. The episode covers essential tips and techniques for men and women, highlights the importance of presence, curiosity, and communication, and explores the nuances of dominant-submissive dynamics. The hosts also stress the value of self-pleasure, emotional connection, and physical fitness in enhancing sexual experiences, encouraging listeners to own their pleasure and experiment with different types of intimacy.


    Come hang out with us on instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@pleasure_playbook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or email us privately at [email protected] with your thoughts, reflections or questions. We love hearing from you.


    If you found value in this episode, pleasure share it with a friend or leave a comment on Spotify. This means so much to us!


    Connect with Steph:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamstephmorris⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠stephmorris.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Connect with Jenna:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamjennamiller⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠jennamiller.ca⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Timestamps:

    00:00 Introduction to Becoming a Better Lover

    01:53 The Importance of Open Conversations About Sex

    05:09 Sex as a Skill and the Role of Communication

    07:13 Personal Experiences and Reflections on Sexual Growth

    11:50 Key Ingredients for Being a Good Lover

    16:31 The Role of Attunement and Emotional Connection

    27:55 Exploring Dominance and Submissiveness in Relationships

    31:15 The Misconceptions of Dominance and Submission

    32:23 The Importance of Communication and Consent

    34:33 Exploring BDSM Safely

    35:49 Healing Through Sexual Experiences

    36:40 Qualities of a Great Dominant

    38:51 Becoming a Better Lover: Tips for Men

    45:19 Becoming a Better Lover: Tips for Women

    51:01 Embodying Sensuality and Movement

    56:44 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    58 min
  • Unlock the Power of Sexual Wellness: Heal, Manifest & Transform Your Life | EP16

    In this episode of Pleasure Playbook, hosts Steph and Jenna explore prioritizing sexual wellness. They discuss how sexual energy can be harnessed for healing emotional and physical ailments, boosting overall well-being, and even manifesting desires. The conversation covers societal shame around sexuality, the benefits of self-pleasure, the differences between male and female sexual energy, and practical ways to integrate sexual wellness into daily life. Whether you're looking to deepen your connection with your body, enhance your intimate relationships, or unlock new pathways to pleasure, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable tips.


    Come hang out with us on instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@pleasure_playbook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or email us privately at [email protected] with your thoughts, reflections or questions. We love hearing from you.


    If you found value in this episode, pleasure share it with a friend or leave a comment on Spotify. This means so much to us!


    Connect with Steph:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamstephmorris⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠stephmorris.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Connect with Jenna:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamjennamiller⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠jennamiller.ca⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Timestamps:

    00:00 Welcome to Pleasure Playbook

    00:16 Ovulation Energy
    00:45 Harnessing Sexual Energy
    01:14 The Importance of Sexual Wellness
    01:49 Overcoming Shame in Sexuality
    03:03 Manifesting with Sexual Energy
    04:21 Advocating for Sexual Health
    05:07 Societal Conditioning and Sexuality
    08:13 Menopause and Women's Health
    13:01 The Power of Libido
    15:07 Self-Advocacy in Sexual Health
    17:46 Loving Your Body
    26:47 The Importance of Self-Pleasure
    30:04 Navigating Intimacy Challenges
    30:47 Empowering Women in the Bedroom
    31:52 The Importance of Self-Pleasure
    33:21 Understanding Sexual Energy Differences
    36:03 Menopause and Sexuality
    39:01 Healing Through Orgasms
    45:53 Harnessing Sexual Energy for Manifestation
    52:20 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    54 min
  • De-Centering Men and Reclaiming Yourself: The Path to Power and Pleasure | EP15

    In this episode of Pleasure Playbook, hosts Steph and Jenna welcome the new year with fresh energy and a renewed focus on personal transformation, sexual wellness, and reclaiming pleasure. They reflect on the rapid transitions and significant events that unfolded in December, sharing insights and wisdom gained from their experiences. The conversation covers the importance of critical thinking, the impact of societal conditioning, and the empowering decision to de-center men from their lives to focus on self-growth and business. They also explore the potential for deep connections and the importance of platonic friendships with men. Additionally, the hosts discuss the transformative power of embracing the unknown in relationships, whether it means rebuilding within an existing partnership or ending it to find greater fulfillment. Throughout the episode, they emphasize the importance of showing up authentically, doing the inner work, and remaining open to the possibilities life offers. Join them for an engaging and empowering discussion aimed at helping listeners reclaim their pleasure potential and create the sex life they deserve.


    Come hang out with us on instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@pleasure_playbook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or email us privately at [email protected] with your thoughts, reflections or questions. We love hearing from you.


    If you found value in this episode, pleasure share it with a friend or leave a comment on Spotify. This means so much to us!


    Connect with Steph:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamstephmorris⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠stephmorris.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Connect with Jenna:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamjennamiller⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠jennamiller.ca⁠⁠⁠


    Timestamps:

    00:00 New Year, New Beginnings
    00:52 Reflecting on Personal Growth
    03:54 The Power of Critical Thinking
    09:24 Decentering Men: A Year of Self-Focus
    16:06 Steph's Embracing Singleness and Empowerment
    21:50 Jenna's Bold Moves and New Connections
    27:12 Reclaiming Personal Power and Sovereignty
    27:52 Shifting Focus from Men to Self-Nourishment
    29:54 Embracing Singlehood and Redefining Connections
    31:27 The Importance of Male Friendships
    33:58 Letting Go of Victimology and Embracing Empowerment
    38:58 Transformative Power of Sexuality and Intimacy
    45:43 Certainty is an Illusion: Embracing Change
    48:54 Rewriting Relationship Narratives
    54:35 Conclusion and Community Engagement

    56 min
  • Kiss Like a Pro: Secrets to Unlock Irresistible Chemistry| EP14

    The Art of Kissing: Sensual, Erotic, and Everything In Between

    In this episode of Pleasure Playbook, sex and intimacy coaches Jenna Miller and Steph Morris delve into the multifaceted world of kissing. They discuss the variety of kissing styles, the importance of communication, and how to keep the connection alive in long-term relationships. With anecdotes from their personal lives and useful tips, they explore how kissing can be a deeply erotic and intimate act. They also touch on the significance of oral hygiene and how to approach kissing without it necessarily leading to sex. Tune in to discover how to make your kissing game more passionate, meaningful, and exciting.


    Come hang out with us on instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@pleasure_playbook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or email us privately at [email protected] with your thoughts, reflections or questions. We love hearing from you.


    If you found value in this episode, pleasure share it with a friend or leave a comment on Spotify. This means so much to us!


    Connect with Steph:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamstephmorris⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠stephmorris.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Connect with Jenna:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamjennamiller⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠jennamiller.ca⁠⁠


    Timestamps:

    00:00 Welcome to Pleasure Playbook

    00:48 The Art of Kissing
    03:42 Exploring Kissing Styles
    10:15 The Importance of Communication in Kissing
    16:29 Body Kisses and Sensual Touch
    27:40 Awakening Sensitivity and Pleasure
    31:37 Best and Worst Kissing Experiences
    35:09 Worst Kiss Ever
    36:27 First Kisses and Early Experiences
    40:40 Memorable Kisses
    46:40 Communicating Desires in Kissing
    51:39 Oral Hygiene Tips for Better Kissing
    56:06 The Importance of Non-Sexual Kissing
    58:28 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    1 hr 1 min
  • Make 2025 Your Hottest Year Yet: Pause, Reflect and Manifest | EP13

    JOIN US FOR SACRED PRAISE:

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    In this episode of Pleasure Playbook, Jenna Miller and Steph Morris guide listeners through a reflective journey of 2024, encouraging self-compassion while envisioning a pleasure-filled 2025. They share insights on expanding capacity for love and joy, discussing the importance of intentions, self-awareness, and trust in one's desires. With thought-provoking journal prompts, Jenna and Steph pave the way to deeper connections and satisfying intimacy. They also provide a playful preview of their own personal goals and what they hope to achieve in the coming year. Get ready to dream big and plan an extraordinary year ahead!


    Come hang out with us on instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@pleasure_playbook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or email us privately at [email protected] with your thoughts, reflections or questions. We love hearing from you.

    If you found value in this episode, pleasure share it with a friend or leave a comment on Spotify. This means so much to us!


    JOIN US FOR SACRED PRAISE:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://portal.stephmorris.co/sacredpraise⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Connect with Steph:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamstephmorris⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠stephmorris.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Connect with Jenna:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamjennamiller⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠jennamiller.ca⁠⁠


    Timestamps:

    00:00 Introduction

    00:46 Reflecting on the Past Year

    02:55 Embracing Big Desires

    06:04 Navigating Relationship Dynamics

    07:58 Sacred Praise Workshop

    09:11 Understanding Human Psychology

    11:15 Self-Awareness in Relationships

    31:31 Creating a Sex and Date Night Bucket List

    35:34 Bucket List for Relationships in 2025

    35:59 Tantric Workshops and Alien Sex

    37:17 Intentional Date Nights and Relationship Goals

    38:50 Winter Cottage Getaway and Staycation Plans

    40:52 Exploring Celibacy and Hoe Phases

    43:05 Predictions for Next Year

    47:24 Reflecting on Love and Relationships

    47:44 Journal Prompts for Self-Reflection

    49:12 Embodying Love in Relationships

    56:49 Final Thoughts and Farewell

    58 min
  • Big Life Shifts: Retreat Magic, Plant Medicine & Queer Play Parties | EP12

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    Play Parties, Healing Retreats, and New Beginnings

    In this episode of Pleasure Playbook, Jenna Miller and Steph Morris catch up after a couple of weeks apart. Steph shares a transformative experience from her recent retreat in Costa Rica, talking about her healing journey and newfound alignment in life and business. Jenna shares her exploration of a queer play party, describing the event's inviting atmosphere and the powerful connections made. Both discuss the importance of personal growth, stepping out of comfort zones, and embracing their true selves.


    Come hang out with us on instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠@pleasure_playbook ⁠⁠⁠⁠or email us privately at [email protected] with your thoughts, reflections or questions. We love hearing from you.

    If you found value in this episode, pleasure share it with a friend or leave a comment on Spotify. This means so much to us!


    JOIN US FOR SACRED PRAISE:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://portal.stephmorris.co/sacredpraise⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Connect with Steph:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamstephmorris⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠stephmorris.co⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Connect with Jenna:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠@iamjennamiller⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠jennamiller.ca⁠⁠

    Timestamps:

    00:00 Introduction
    00:46 Catching Up After a Break
    02:20 Steph's Transformative Costa Rica Retreat
    07:18 Sacred Praise Workshop Announcement
    23:44 Jenna's Journey to Self-Discovery
    33:46 Upcoming Excitements and Life Choices
    34:22 Micro Practices for a Better Day
    36:05 Digital Detox and Real Connections
    37:56 Exploring New Social Platforms
    39:28 Weekend Adventures and Play Parties
    41:53 Reflections on Sexuality and Identity
    47:24 The Unique Dynamics of Queer Spaces
    52:21 Future Visions and Personal Growth
    01:01:05 Concluding Thoughts and Upcoming Events

    1 hr 3 min
  • Pleasure Awards: The Best of 2024 | EP11

    Pleasure & Intimacy Awards: Best of 2024

    In this episode of Pleasure Playbook, hosts Jenna Miller and Steph Morris present their Pleasure and Intimacy Awards for 2024. They discuss their favourite sex positions, toys, and lubes, reflecting on what has worked well in their intimacy journeys this year. The duo shares steamy experiences, recommends tools and techniques, and reveals their favorite songs and scents for setting the mood. They also delve into their surprising and powerful moments in intimacy and what they are ready to try next year. Join Jenna and Steph for an entertaining and educational awards ceremony full of sexy insights and empowering knowledge.


    Come hang out with us on instagram ⁠⁠⁠@pleasure_playbook ⁠⁠⁠or email us privately at [email protected] with your thoughts, reflections or questions. We love hearing from you.

    If you found value in this episode, pleasure share it with a friend or leave a comment on Spotify. This means so much to us!


    JOIN US FOR SACRED PRAISE:

    ⁠⁠⁠https://portal.stephmorris.co/sacredpraise⁠⁠⁠


    Connect with Steph:

    ⁠⁠⁠@iamstephmorris⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠stephmorris.co⁠⁠⁠


    Connect with Jenna:

    ⁠⁠⁠@iamjennamiller⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠jennamiller.ca⁠


    Timestamps:

    00:00 Introduction

    00:51 Pleasure and Intimacy Awards 2024
    02:10 Favourite Sex Positions of the Year
    04:14 Top Sex Toys and Tools
    08:14 Best Lubes
    13:10 Favorite Blowjob Positions
    18:02 Surprising Intimacy Moments of the Year
    26:09 Setting the Mood
    28:47 Intimate Date Night Activities
    35:33 Future Explorations in Intimacy
    39:25 Final Thoughts


    Products mentioned:

    -Bed restraints

    -Jenna's fav vibe: Tori

    -Steph's fav vibe: We Vibe

    -Sacred Squirter glass toy

    -Clit arousal Serum [Use code JENNAMILLERiJ7z for 20% off]

    -Sutil Lube

    -Province Apothecary Sex Oil & Lover's Oil

    41 min
  • You've Been Lied to: Debunking Common Sex Myths | EP10

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    In this episode of Pleasure Playbook, sex and intimacy coaches Jenna Miller and Steph Morris delve into common sex myths that many people believe. They discuss the variability of libido, the misconception that wetness equals arousal, differing sexual desire types, the benefits of scheduled intimacy, and the false stereotype that men desire sex more than women. Throughout the episode, they emphasize the importance of communication, compassion, and understanding in relationships, offering insights to help listeners enhance their sex lives. They also introduce an exclusive workshop, Sacred Praise, focused on deepening intimacy through the art of pleasurable blowjobs.

    Come hang out with us on instagram ⁠⁠@pleasure_playbook ⁠⁠or email us privately at [email protected] with your thoughts, reflections or questions. We love hearing from you.

    If you found value in this episode, pleasure share it with a friend or leave a comment on Spotify. This means so much to us!


    JOIN US FOR SACRED PRAISE:

    ⁠⁠https://portal.stephmorris.co/sacredpraise⁠⁠


    Connect with Steph:

    ⁠⁠@iamstephmorris⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠stephmorris.co⁠⁠


    Connect with Jenna:

    ⁠⁠@iamjennamiller⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠jennamiller.ca⁠


    Timestamps:

    00:00 Introduction

    00:46 Debunking Sex Myths: An Overview
    02:01 Myth 1: Libido is Always the Same
    06:08 Myth 2: Wetness Equals Arousal
    08:02 Special Workshop Announcement: Sacred Praise
    09:19 Myth 3: Desire Works the Same for Everyone
    13:54 Myth 4: Sex Should Be Spontaneous and Fun
    18:25 Myth 5: Men Want Sex More Than Women
    23:17 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    25 min

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Join sex coaches Jenna Miller and Steph Morris for candid conversations about sex and relationships with a she-comes-first attitude. Each episode combines empowerment and education from a…