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Pocket Change: Dealing with Naysayers


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In this episode of Pocket Change—the bite-sized series of the Changeology podcast—I tackle one of the most insidious forms of resistance to personal growth: the naysayer.

You know the type. You're fired up about a new job opportunity, a creative leap, or a major life change... and someone close to you responds with doubt, concern, or thinly veiled criticism. Even if it's well-meaning, it stings…and it can completely derail your momentum.

This solo episode unpacks why people naysay (yep, we’re making that a verb), how to spot what’s really going on beneath their concern, and how to decide whether to consider their input—or whether to ignore it completely. Whether you’re navigating a new goal or finally giving voice to a long-held dream, this one’s a (short!) must-listen.


What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

🌟 Why naysayers' doubts can hit harder than you'd expect—even when you trust yourself

🌟 Four practical strategies to protect your energy and keep your momentum

🌟 How to spot the difference between valid caution and someone else's fear masquerading as advice

🌟 A subtle but powerful script for redirecting unwanted opinions before they sabotage your change



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ChangeologyBy Meg Trucano, Ph.D.