Be deliberate on  what you want in your life. Be deliberate don't wait for there to be a demand that has to be placed on your life for you to change. Focus on what you need to do and place a demand on yourself. Focus on putting good in daily, time with God, and the Bible. Regardless how you feel do the right things everyday. What do you need to be deliberate about? Then ask God about it. Start taking action on what you need to do regardless how you feel everyday. Be faithful to ask and then do what you need to do. God is faithful to his promises.