When your doing what God tells you to do and someone hurts your feelings who cares? Who is going to remember it 5 years, 10 years or 100 hundred years. What matters is what you did in the mission  field. What you did for God. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;