Talking about 1 Thessalonians 5 and being at peace among others. We need to make sure that we are not in pride. Minimizes trouble when you can dwell among others in peace . We have set our mind and focus that we are on going to do the right thing. Love the Lord thy God with all your mind soul and strength and love thy neighbor as thyself. Focus on sowing good seed. You don’t always have to feel like doing good to do good. Focus on doing what is right in action regardless whether you feel like doing it or not. Choose to listen, sometimes being at peace means just shutting your mouth and listening. You might not always agree but sometimes listening keeps the peace. Don’t render evil for evil. Leave it with God, pray about it and let him handle your troubles. You are not the judge he is.