This is Monday, and I'm the earnest man hosting episode number 225. Today, I want to discuss a question I received from Dolan in Vancouver, British Columbia. Dolan asked, "What do I really want in this world?" It's a deeper question than the usual surface-level desires like a better job or a new car. I believe that true, lasting happiness doesn't come from these material things. Often, we become sad and depressed when we feel like our real desires are out of reach.

When I talk to people about this, they usually give me small, superficial answers. But I challenge them to think bigger. Life is about pursuing meaningful goals that contribute to our overall happiness, not just monetary gains. Sadly, many people are too busy or introspective to even consider what they truly want.

We need to break down the barriers and have honest conversations about our desires. It's important to talk about our realistic chances of achieving what we want. Our mental and physical health are interconnected, so it's crucial to prioritize our well-being. Carrying the burden of unfulfilled desires can weigh us down and make us feel like our lives are incomplete.

While some goals may seem unattainable, it doesn't mean we should give up entirely. Even if becoming a professional baseball player at the age of 50 is unlikely, there are still aspects of that dream that can be pursued. Life is not just about work; it's about finding happiness and fulfillment beyond societal expectations.

Having a plan is vital. Preparation and being ready to seize opportunities are crucial. Fate and opportunity favor the prepared. It's essential to be willing to give and not be greedy or negative. Building positive relationships and connections can lead to valuable exchanges that benefit both parties. Bartering skills, knowledge, or expertise can open doors and create a supportive network.

We shouldn't get caught up in the pursuit of money alone. Instead, we should focus on what truly makes us happy and work towards independence and fulfillment. It's not about bad words; it's about our actions. I appreciate everyone who listens to my show, and I invite you to visit my website, where you can find more content and episodes. Remember, there are no bad words—just bad actions.

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