Anonymous Dater speak with a urban man who say he would provide 50/50 to his babies mother but the rest is on her! He states" modern women who have a man want to provide and do what men do!".  Marriage to him is not called for,,its ok to live with a women for over 10 yrs without the benefit and commitment of marriage.   Urban man said, "starting a business with a woman your in a non committal relationship with  is ok, as long as you trust each other and get her a very nice promise ring at the age of 40!  Tune in to this podcast find out how the anonymous dater tackle this call.