You have a friend who has remarried and just had a baby. But they're wigging out over all of it - and convinced that they are going to fail again. And all that fear is being moderated with alcohol...so much so that they are missing work because they're too drunk to come in. In a moment of honest they ask you if you believe they are messing up their life? What do you say to them? In this message, Max Vanderpool outlines how to practice gentle honesty...by poking the bear but NOT running away.