Recorded: 11/14/2021 / Published: 5/19/2022
- at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about polyamory partner compatibility and jealousy.

- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- “Polyamory Partner Compatibility and Jealousy-S04E14”
Polyamory from Curtain Call https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OyO1H6eBP60
Definitions to know: https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-polyamory
Polyamory: multiple loving, intentional, and intimate relationships at the same time. Polyamory is a type of open or non-monogamous relationship that follows certain guidelines.
Polyamory specifically refers to people who have multiple romantic relationships at the same time. It does not mean any type of open relationship that may include more casual sexual partners. In many polyamorous relationships, each partner is aware of the other ones.
Partners may also have relationships or friendships with each other.
There are a few different types of polyamory:
Solo polyamory includes people who don't have primary partnerships but date multiple people. They remain mostly independent in their personal lives.
Polyfidelity refers to a group of three or more people who have a committed relationship with each other and do not date outside of the group.
Hierarchical polyamory means people who have primary partnerships to which they devote the most time and attention, and secondary and tertiary partnerships that receive less time and attention. The primary partner may have more power over important decisions.
Non-hierarchical polyamory refers to people who don’t have a hierarchy of partners. It is also called egalitarian polyamory or relationship anarchy. Each partner may receive equal time and attention. They may also have equal input on important life choices.
New Relationship Energy (NRE)
Kitchen Table Polyamory
What is the Difference Between Polyamory and Swinging?
Swingers have multiple sexual partners but may not develop emotional or romantic connections with their partners. Swingers usually attend sex parties and other events to swap partners. They may have recurring sexual partners, but their focus is not on having romantic relationships.
“Compatibility is Less Obvious Than You'd Think” by Laura Boyle, Jan 26,
https://www.readyforpolyamory.com/post/compatibility-is-less-obvious-than-you-d-think
“It seems like the primary problem for a polyamorous person would be “do we get along well enough to date?” and then “are they interested in polyamory or already polyamorous?” and if both are a yes, everyone is all set. While that’s certainly the first question, it’s unfortunately not the last.
Compatibility in a polyamorous relationship can be complicated by all the same factors as compatibility in monogamous relationships - are you looking for something serious right now? If so: Do you want kids/Do you have kids? Are you good with money? Do you keep house in comfortably compatible ways? Do you intend to move soon or travel as part of your lifestyle? Do either/any of you have issues with addiction that will complicate your relationship to the point of incompatibility?
And compatibility is additionally complicated by uniquely polyamorous problems: are you looking...