October 20, 2023

Pop-Up 11: Masculine Archetypes

40 minutes

Hi, Lovebugs! Today’s pop-up episode is about exploring masculine archetypes!

I invited my amazing husband, Jeremiah, to lend his male perspective. Together, we unravel the layers of the four archetypes: Lover, Warrior, Magician, and King.

We begin our discussion around the Lover, exploring the passionate and emotional side of men, but beware, not every lover is created equal; some can be addictive, while others may struggle to find joy.

Then, we dive into the Warrior, the embodiment of protection and defense. Jeremiah highlights the importance of training this archetype with care and humility, emphasizing its undervalued role in our communities.

Moving on to the Magician, we uncover the power of curiosity and knowledge. A fully evolved magician seeks wisdom, shares it with others, and embodies true humility.

Lastly, we explore the King, the apex of masculine maturity. Jeremiah and I delve into the balance between the resolute, decisive ruler and the potential pitfalls of tyranny and weakness.

Join us on this enlightening journey through the male psyche, understanding the complexities that shape the men in our lives.

NEXT: Stay tuned for our next episode on a male fertility story with Jeremiah. See you next time, and remember that if you have a Secret Story you want to share with me, I invite you to drop your truth for the next Secret Story episode!

Time Stamps:

[0:31] - We are talking today about the masculine archetypes.

[2:49] - Manhood evolves through stages, connecting maturity to emotional growth, contrasting feminine mystery with mastery.

[4:53] - Jeremiah argues that observation, counsel, and hands-on experiences foster healthy manhood development in boys.

[7:13] - Mature manhood embraces responsibility, including mastering skills and utilizing logic for protection and decision-making.

[9:47] - Jeremiah adds that embracing feminine energy involves allowing expression, compassion, and empathy in decision-making and interactions.

[11:18] - I touch upon how Carl Jung's archetypes are universal symbols embodying balance in masculine energies.

[14:50] - The first archetype is the Lover, embodying youthful idealism, pleasure, and emotional connection in mature masculinity.

[17:46] - Jeremiah offers his perspective on the Lover archetype.

[20:15] - Jeremiah feels that men benefit from restraining the Lover archetype to avoid overindulgence and addiction pitfalls.

[21:39] - I explain the Warrior archetype, pointing out how a balanced warrior defends with responsibility, but imbalance leads to cruelty or passivity.

[24:48] - The warrior archetype, according to Jeremiah, is crucial yet undervalued and demands constant training for balanced defense.

[27:28] - The Magician archetype empowers men as co-creators, problem solvers, and insightful stewards of psyche.

[29:45] - Hear about the two sides of the Magician archetype.

[31:40] - Jeremiah likes the Magician archetype in part because it's the least understood.

[33:36] - The fourth and final archetype, the King, embodies wisdom, leadership, and balance, fostering order and purpose in life.

[35:09] - Hear all about the Highchair Tyrant side of the King archetype.

[37:33] - Men aspire to embody the King archetype, seeking clarity, leadership, and positive influence.

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By Joyice Robinson Myers, PhDc

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