As far as Mirjam's message is concerned: "It's important to me to let people know that there is no "normal" when it comes to sex. The most common question people ask me is: "Is this normal?" and they are so afraid of being abnormal in some way. I really want to let people know that the only thing that matters is whether it feels good to you and your partner. There really is no abnormal. The concept of normalcy only creates anxiety and feelings of being different, inadequate, wrong or unworthy."

In today's episode with Mirjam, we redefine this idea of "normal" and discuss sexual trauma, porn, dating culture, sex differences and more. Mirjam Hachem, PhD, is a sex therapist and coach. Her work is dedicated to healing the profound disconnection between men and women that has resulted from centuries of oppression, violence, and inequality. Disconnection creates insecurity, fear, anger, jealousy, and resentment. Connection creates appreciation, joy, love, and mutual support. Mirjam helps men and women to connect with each other and create deeply fulfilling sex lives. 

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