We continue our Black Men series with Marvin, a menswear professional. Gi Gi questions Marvin about his perspective on all types of relationships: with self, friends, professional colleagues, and of course romantic relationships. They discuss the pitfalls of the Red Pill community and the "High-Value Man" ideology. Marvin also describes the winding journey that led to celebrating his 30th birthday while living out of a car,  the awe-inspiring experience of having a date butter his bread, and the rewards of doing "shadow work" in therapy.