When traveling for work, I sent postcards. Simple, short notes—“I miss you,” “wish you were here.” My ex dismissed them, but I knew the truth: kids remember effort. They remember when you reach for them, even across distance.

Why it’s important:In Earned, Not Given, I talk about surviving work travel and co-parenting battles. Presence isn’t only physical—it’s emotional and consistent.

📖 Earned, Not Given is coming soon.

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