Ever wondered how society's binary thinking and 'bisexual ignorance' impacts those of us with fluid sexual orientations? We delve into Butcher's personal experiences of bi-ignorance, societal pressures, and how they have shaped how she operates within middle-class UK. We highlight the importance of safe spaces for discussion, breaking the shackles of binary thinking and fully embracing the spectrum of our experiences. It's not just about bisexuality, we also touch-on the fascinating world of hot-wifing and the subtle differences from cuckolding in our combined media review and what's in Butcher's pocket.