Parenting coach and early childhood specialist DJ Stutz joins us to talk about the reality of raising children and why she calls parents “imperfect heroes.” As the oldest of seven siblings, a mother of five, and grandmother of thirteen, DJ has spent a lifetime caring for children and helping families navigate the challenges of parenting.

In this conversation, DJ shares how her journey from raising her own children to teaching kindergarten and working with families in shelters and prisons led her to start helping parents through coaching, workshops, and her podcast, Imperfect Heroes. Her goal is simple but powerful: to help parents rediscover the joy in raising their children.

We talk about why many parenting struggles actually begin with adult expectations and how understanding child development can completely change the way we respond to difficult behavior. DJ explains that discipline isn’t about punishment—it’s about teaching, setting clear boundaries, and creating a sense of safety for kids.

DJ also shares practical advice on improving communication with children, managing big emotions like anxiety, and modeling emotional regulation so kids can learn how to handle their own feelings. Often, the most powerful parenting lessons happen when children simply watch how we respond to stress and conflict.

To find out more about DJ and her books and podcast, visit imperfectheroes.net.

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