Preparing Your Toddler for a New Baby
This segment is all about introducing a new sibling into the family.
Welcoming a new baby is one of the biggest transitions a family can experience. Alongside the excitement often comes worry, guilt and questions about how to support your older child through such a significant change. In this episode, psychologist Nadia Bachler and occupational therapist Althea Smith share both their personal experiences and professional insights into helping children adjust to becoming a big brother or sister.
Together, they discuss what secure attachment looks like during this transition, how to prepare your child before the baby arrives, and why regressions in sleep, toileting, feeding or behaviour are often a normal response to change. They also explore practical strategies including using play to prepare children, creating social stories, protecting one-on-one connection, avoiding comparisons between siblings, responding with empathy instead of punishment, and supporting your child's emotional needs through one of the biggest changes of their early years.
Whether you're currently pregnant, preparing your toddler for a new sibling, or already navigating life with two children, this conversation is filled with evidence-informed strategies, honest reflections and reassurance that you don't need to do everything perfectly. Small, intentional moments of connection can make a meaningful difference.
In this episode we discuss:
* How to prepare your toddler for a new baby
* Supporting secure attachment when welcoming a sibling
* Why sibling transitions can bring big emotions
* Common regressions after a new baby arrives
* Preparing children through play and social stories
* One-on-one connection with your older child
* Language to avoid when talking about the baby
* Responding to regressions with empathy
* Managing parental overwhelm during the newborn stage
* Practical strategies that support the whole family
Tried & True
Each week, we share something we're loving (or not loving!) in motherhood, business or everyday life.
Nadia's recommendation:
Taking intentional moments for yourself throughout the week. Whether it's browsing an op shop after school drop-off, enjoying a quiet coffee or simply giving yourself permission to slow down, those small moments can help make motherhood feel more sustainable.
Althea's recommendation:
Chekoh Baby Carrier — a beautiful, aesthetic baby carrier that Althea loved for its design, while also sharing some honest thoughts about the features she wished were more functional.
Links mentioned in the episode
Practicing Mums is hosted by Nadia Bachler (@nadiainpractice) and Althea Smith (@evolvewithalthea) — two mums, business owners and clinicians navigating the beautiful chaos of motherhood, work and everything in between.
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Disclaimer
The views and information shared in this podcast are general in nature and are provided for educational purposes only. They are not intended as medical, psychological, therapeutic, legal, or other professional advice and should not be relied upon as such. Listening to this podcast does not create a clinician-client relationship. Always seek advice from an appropriately qualified professional regarding your individual circumstances.