In this episode, Fr. Tom reflects on one of Jesus’ most revealing parables—the Pharisee and the tax collector. The homily explores the subtle temptation to make our prayer about ourselves and our performance rather than focusing on relationship with God. The challenge for us is to move beyond self-congratulation toward authentic humility, to embrace the kind of prayer that opens us to mercy. Because when we stop talking to the mirror and start talking to God, grace finally has room to work in our hearts.