We are well aware that God has created and ordained only two institutions upon this earth - the family, or home, and the church. We can read about God’s establishing the first family in the book of Genesis (and we will do that in a few minutes). The family is the first and oldest of the two organizations that God has established. Description: A “family” refers to a household consisting of a father, a mother, and their children dwelling together. The family is the most basic social unit of an organized and ordered society. Sadly, though, many families, many homes are in disarray today because they are not following God's design. First Corinthians 11:3 gives us God’s design for order in the home: “But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.” The Head of the home is not the man, but it is to be Christ (for He is the head of every man). And, the head of the woman is to be the man, the husband. This DOES NOT imply that there is some inferiority in women. I believe I Timothy 2:13-14 clearly give us the reasons for this domestic order: “For Adam was first formed, then Eve. (14) And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.” (Now, if you have a problem with that order, discuss it with God. He set it!) The husband/father is to be the leader, and especially the spiritual leader, in the home. Our text that we just read tells us essentially the same thing. If our homes are not what they should be for God, we husbands and fathers will be called upon by God to give answer for it. But what we are seeing today is that the “home,” especially the kind of home we read about in the Bible is rapidly disappearing from the landscape. Christ is no longer at the center of the home. Television is, or some hobby or recreation is, or some sport is. Children’s sports on a Wednesday or Sunday were once taboo, but today they seem to be all the rage. I can almost hear Satan laughing and saying, “Mamas and daddies, keep on showing your children that serving God and church are not as important as these other things. According to NCAA statistics, only a minuscule percentage of high school athletes go all the way to play professionally. Only 1 in 610 (.16%) will ever get drafted by a Major League Baseball team. Only 1 in 3,960 (.025%) will get picked by an NFL team. But I can guarantee you that 1 out of every 1 (100%) will eventually die, and if they die without Jesus Christ as Savior, 1 out of every 1 (100%) will go to Hell when they die. Many fathers are not interested in being the spiritual leader in the home (it’s not MACHO) and quite often the home is left leaderless. By the way, I thank God for good, godly, Christian mothers who, when dads won’t be the men they should be for the Lord, will take upon themselves (with all their other duties) the job that is supposed to be dad’s! (We will look at those duties in a moment.) And many homes are not united in a commitment to the Lord. Christ does not have first place. They are unlike Joshua in Joshua 24:15. Add to these things all that the world, the flesh, and the devil parade before families today - FORNICATION, LIVING TOGETHER WITHOUT BEING MARRIED, HOMOSEXUALITY, TRANSGENDERISM, UNGODLY SITCOMS ON TELEVISION, A SEX-CRAZED WORLD, THE PLAYBOY MENTALITY, DIVORCE, ETC. - and you can easily see why so many homes - even so-called “Christian” homes are breaking down today. Remember, the home is the basic unit of an ordered and orderly society. When our homes - especially God-fearing homes - are destroyed, we will be done as a nation! That is why Satan is working so hard today. He is:
I. CREATING CONFUSION ABOUT THE ORIGIN OF THE HOME.
II. CAUSING CONFUSION ABOUT THE ORDER OF THE HOME.
III. CAUSING CONFUSION (CONFLICT) ABOUT THE OPERATION OF THE HOME.