Both men and women have a mental list of traits and characteristics that they most desire in their ideal romantic match.  There is a large group of women, however, that seem to think that just because a guy does not meet all of the items on their list, that they aren't a viable candidate for romance (according to many men).  In essence, "it would be nice" preferences and "he must have" requirements are being confused for one another.  In this podcast, I talk about the difference between preferences and requirements, how it is a mistake to have too many requirements when determining who you will give a romantic chance to, and I discuss the type of wishes or requirements that you SHOULD have.  If this sounds interesting to you or you have a laundry list of items a man must check off before you will date him (and because of this you spend most of your weekend nights home alone) this is the podcast for you!