What if everything we thought we knew about non-speaking autism was wrong? In this episode of Parents Unheard, Joseph and Kayie sit down with Steven May, the founder of Presume Competence.

Steven isn’t a doctor or a parent—he is a dedicated researcher who has distilled the wisdom of over 120 books written by non-speakers to uncover a startling truth: the problem isn't intelligence; it's apraxia.

We explore why traditional AAC devices might actually be failing our children due to sensory "strobing" and optical challenges, and why a simple 26-letter board is the key to unlocking a trapped mind.

From the "Spiderwebs of Connection" found in spellers’ stories to the extraordinary sensory capabilities of non-speaking individuals, this episode challenges every boundary of what we believe is possible.

In this episode, we discuss:

• The Mind-Body Disconnect: Understanding apraxia and the "puppet" analogy.

• The AAC Critique: Why high-tech devices can be a barrier to true communication.

• The "I’m In Here" Moment: The emotional reality of a child’s first words on a letterboard.

• Sensory Superpowers: Why non-speakers might hear Wi-Fi and see in "Full HD" peripheral vision.

• The Path Forward: Practical steps for UK parents to start the spelling journey today.

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