John Lam is the first Vietnamese American male principal dancer, and the most senior dancer with the Boston Ballet. He has a loving husband and two sons, and gushes about life. So what does this successful family man struggle with the most? His family—the one back home in California who don't quite get him or the life he lives.

Music used in this episode:

• End Title (Little Children) by Thomas Newman
• Les Enfants Terrible: Elizabeth Chooses a Career by Philip Glass
• Facades by Philip Glass
• Piano accompaniment recorded at the Boston Ballet
• Additional music from Blue Dot Sessions

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