Alejandro Pérez bootstrapped Komet Sales, a cloud-based ERP and e-commerce platform for the floral industry, from his parents' house to a successful private equity exit, 18 years, 6 months, and 18 days later. No VC, no hype, no shortcuts. Just a guy who fell in love with an "unsexy industry" and built something real by creating value.

In this episode, Alejandro and I go deep on what it takes to build a business the right way and walk away from it without losing yourself in the process. We talk about the six years he spent running an agency making no money, chasing money, before realizing money was the wrong goal. We get into the years bootstrapping Komet, the moment an acquirer told him his company was undervalued because he wasn't paying himself a real salary, and why he hired a banker for the sale when he didn't need to. We also talk about how he handed over his CEO title to an outside operator without feeling attached, why he put the majority of his exit into Bitcoin, and how two heart attacks reshaped his relationship with time and success.

Alejandro has a pure abundance mindset. He's the most positive person I've ever met, and by the end of the conversation, you'll understand where that comes from.

This is a conversation about building something quietly, selling it well, and staying unshaken no matter what happens. If you've ever wondered what a clean, grounded founder journey actually looks like, this one's for you.

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(01:31) How he priced his classmates' papers at 14
(06:29) At 21, he just wanted to build, not monetize
(07:35) Six years of chasing money before the reframe
(08:35) How Komet Sales almost got named after a cleanser
(15:00) Starting Komet after his divorce, at his parents' house
(19:48) How long it took to find product-market fit
(22:14) The acquirer call that changed how he paid himself
(25:07) The dream number he never expected to get
(27:04) The Vistage moment that changed how he saw his company
(31:36) Deciding to sell during a mushroom trip in the Amazon
(35:14) Why he hired a banker instead of selling directly
(38:00) 18 years, 6 months, 18 days to sell
(38:58) The Sunday test for loving your job
(39:46) Life-changing money, then straight into Bitcoin
(42:11) Why an abundance mindset made him more money
(46:06) A year traveling the world with his son
(48:22) The Bitcoin inheritance platform he's building next
(50:38) Building for fun vs building to make payroll
(53:04) The CEO lab coat and letting go of identity
(54:44) Two heart attacks, converted into rocket fuel

Show notes:

• Find show notes of each episode on ProfitLed.fm. 

Connect with our host:

• Follow Melissa on LinkedIn where she shares stories & lessons from her founder journey weekly.
• Connect with Melissa at melissakwan.com and subscribe to  'your founder next door', Melissa's weekly newsletter on what it's like to build a company without an abundance of resources and friends in high places.
• Follow @themelissakwan on Instagram and YouTube where she shares short videos of business advice and other truth-bomb sound bites.

This podcast was brought to you by eWebinar:

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Peter Hwang spent 28 years building six companies across six completely different industries. He survived the 2008 financial crisis, which wiped out a near-IPO a month before closing and left him with $3M in debt and a wife six months pregnant with their third child. He rebuilt from that. Then built again.

In 2018 and 2019, two of his companies sold within 14 months of each other, an 8-figure and a 9-figure exit. He was 45. Technically retired, but then everything stopped.

In this episode, Peter and I get into what was  driving him through 28 years of building, the fear, the proving, the  scarcity model he carried his whole life without naming it. We talk about what it felt like when the emails stopped and the urgency disappeared, why achieving everything he worked for left him feeling lonely and depressed, and how he eventually found his way back to building for a completely different reason.

We also get into what separates founders who make it from those who get stuck, how his passion and purpose shifted across three distinct chapters of his life, and what his dad said when Peter finally gave him the one thing he actually wanted.

This is a conversation about what happens when the outcome arrives and it doesn't feel the way you thought it would. If you've ever felt like you were chasing an external feeling of success and needed to rediscover your internal purpose, this one's for you.

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(01:25) Growing up watching his parents' Baskin-Robbins
(04:47) Why he knew he had to work for himself
(06:07) What actually drove his early ambition
(07:42) Starting Extreme Pita and his first exit at 24
(10:43) Why he keeps building in completely different industries
(12:53) Enwise: the near-IPO that collapsed in 2008
(15:03) The email that changed everything
(16:22) Who showed up when things fell apart
(18:28) What Cindy said when he told her
(20:32) What kept him going through two years of rebuilding
(23:37) How Enwise led directly to Globalfaces
(24:09) Running two companies simultaneously for seven years
(32:01) What separates founders who make it from those who get stuck
(37:07) Two exits in 14 months and the arrival fallacy
(39:53) From 100 emails a day to three
(41:52) How he found his way back to purpose
(45:07) How passion and purpose shifted across three chapters
(46:18) What his dad actually wanted
(47:40) How building businesses built him as a person
(53:47) What he hopes his kids take from watching him

Show notes:

• Find show notes of each episode on ProfitLed.fm. 

Connect with our host:

• Follow Melissa on LinkedIn where she shares stories & lessons from her founder journey weekly.
• Connect with Melissa at melissakwan.com and subscribe to  'your founder next door', Melissa's weekly newsletter on what it's like to build a company without an abundance of resources and friends in high places.
• Follow @themelissakwan on Instagram and YouTube where she shares short videos of business advice and other truth-bomb sound bites.

This podcast was brought to you by eWebinar:

Find out how you can turn pre-recorded videos into interactive experiences with chat so you can run your demos, onboarding calls, and training sessions on autopilot, 24/7, without being there. Hop into a demo at eWebinar.com, no salesperson required.

Esben Friis-Jensen spent seven years building Cobalt, a VC-backed cybersecurity company with four co-founders, $37 million raised, and over 200 employees. He left without a financial outcome. Then he built Userflow, a no-code onboarding tool, as the complete opposite: bootstrapped, three people, no meetings, no VC. It grew to $4.6 million in revenue and sold in a deal reported to be over $60 million.

In this episode, Esben and I get into what those years at Cobalt taught him about the relationship between effort and reward, why he and his co-founder chose to pay themselves first instead of reinvesting everything back into the company, and how he kept his ambition alive when there was no financial pressure to keep going.

We also talk about what happened when the wire hit the bank, why it didn't change his life as much as you'd think, and what life looks like now that he's retired in his early 40s with two kids, no obligations, and no plans (yet) to start another company.

This is a conversation about designing a business around the life you want instead of the other way around, and what happens when you finally get there. 

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(01:17) "I wanted to be the CEO of a large company"
(05:16) "I didn't even know that world existed"
(07:01) What 200 employees actually felt like
(08:35) "You can build this amazing company and get very little"
(10:56) Building the complete opposite of Cobalt
(14:24) From wanting to run Accenture to a two-person company
(14:49) Where $1.5 million per employee actually went
(20:58) What kept them going with no financial pressure
(22:16) Saying no to sales calls and hiding the demo button
(24:11) "Were there moments it almost didn't work?"
(27:24) Why most acquisition offers went straight to trash
(29:10) Handing over a product he dreamed about every day
(30:31) When the wire hit the bank
(31:55) "I don't need to work to be happy"
(36:12) Financial freedom as a sub-goal, not the end
(38:03) Same definition of success, completely different path

Show notes:

• Find show notes of each episode on ProfitLed.fm. 

Connect with our host:

• Follow Melissa on LinkedIn where she shares stories & lessons from her founder journey weekly.
• Connect with Melissa at melissakwan.com and subscribe to  'your founder next door', Melissa's weekly newsletter on what it's like to build a company without an abundance of resources and friends in high places.
• Follow @themelissakwan on Instagram and YouTube where she shares short videos of business advice and other truth-bomb sound bites.

This podcast was brought to you by eWebinar:

Find out how you can turn pre-recorded videos into interactive experiences with chat so you can run your demos, onboarding calls, and training sessions on autopilot, 24/7, without being there. Hop into a demo at eWebinar.com, no salesperson required.

Chris Erler bootstrapped ComX from €10,000 and unemployment benefits to €20 million in revenue in four years, becoming a first mover in B2B digital sales in Europe. He sold to private equity at multiples he never imagined. Then the company went through insolvency, and he walked away with nothing the second time around.

In this episode, Chris and I get into what it feels like when your first company works on the first try, and what that kind of velocity does to you as a person. We talk about how his ego shifted as the money came in, what it was like to go from founder to employee inside a PE structure, and how his body literally broke down from stress he didn't even register. His spine was deteriorating for a year and he was answering Slack messages in a hospital at 11pm before he even acknowledged something was wrong.

We also talk about what the insolvency felt like, how failure carries a completely different stigma in Europe than it does in the US, and why he's now building Erler Ventures to help founders scale without burning out along the way.

This is a conversation about the full ride: the highs, the exit, the unraveling, and what success actually means after you've been through all of it. If you've ever built something that started taking more from you than it gave, this one is for you.

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(01:05) What "doing things differently" meant growing up in Austria
(02:30) What drove him to start his first company
(05:00) The goal was financial freedom, not a big idea
(07:30) It worked on the first try: €20M in four years
(10:15) What that velocity felt like emotionally
(12:15) "I tried to spend money. I didn't like it."
(14:15) The dopamine kick and the ego trap
(15:45) The body breaks: hospital at 11pm, answering Slack
(18:15) The PE deal changed everything
(19:30) "My why was not there, and that crushed me"
(22:30) What the exit money actually felt like
(24:30) The shift from founder to employee
(25:45) Watching ComX go from acquisition to insolvency
(28:30) Why failure carries shame in Europe but not the US
(32:00) Building Erler Ventures: helping founders not burn out
(35:00) "If your body doesn't work, nothing is fun"

Show notes:

• Find show notes of each episode on ProfitLed.fm. 

Connect with our host:

• Follow Melissa on LinkedIn where she shares stories & lessons from her founder journey weekly.
• Connect with Melissa at melissakwan.com and subscribe to  'your founder next door', Melissa's weekly newsletter on what it's like to build a company without an abundance of resources and friends in high places.
• Follow @themelissakwan on Instagram and YouTube where she shares short videos of business advice and other truth-bomb sound bites.

This podcast was brought to you by eWebinar:

Find out how you can turn pre-recorded videos into interactive experiences with chat so you can run your demos, onboarding calls, and training sessions on autopilot, 24/7, without being there. Hop into a demo at eWebinar.com, no salesperson required.

Simon Swords bootstrapped Fundipedia for nearly 20 years before selling to FE fundinfo in May 2025. He started in a garden shed with an Ethernet cable and a VoIP phone, ran three businesses at once for years, and eventually landed clients like HSBC, Barclays, and Legal & General. He negotiated the entire life-changing exit himself with his chairman and a ChatGPT subscription, without a corporate broker.

In this episode, Simon and I go deep on what it actually costs to play the long game. We talk about the childhood that wired him to push through anything, why he says he would rather have died than given up, and why he cried the day the deal closed.

We also get into why he sought therapy after the business was successful, not during the struggle. And why he thinks once you have the money, you're no longer allowed to be sad.

This is a conversation about whether the exit actually sets you free, or whether the real work starts after. If you're playing the long game, this one's for you.

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(02:00) Why bootstrapping for 20 years was the making of him
(07:31) Cumulative childhood trauma and growing up in Dagenham
(11:30) Anxiety as a superpower in business
(12:59) "I would have rather died than given up"
(15:38) Thinking he was having a heart attack on an onboarding call
(18:30) His chairman buying him out for a million pounds
(20:12) Waking up with the money and the anxiety still there
(21:52) The dragon he was chasing for 30 years
(23:30) Why most of his therapy came after success, not during
(28:30) Running the exit himself with ChatGPT
(32:31) What the cry on closing day was really about
(34:56) Why once you have money, you're not allowed to be sad
(38:30) The friends who anchor him to reality
(42:23) The panic attack that made him stop
(45:30) His 2026 plan to fill the space the business used to occupy
(48:05) What he's most proud of

Show notes:

• Find show notes of each episode on ProfitLed.fm. 

Connect with our host:

• Follow Melissa on LinkedIn where she shares stories & lessons from her founder journey weekly.
• Connect with Melissa at melissakwan.com and subscribe to  'your founder next door', Melissa's weekly newsletter on what it's like to build a company without an abundance of resources and friends in high places.
• Follow @themelissakwan on Instagram and YouTube where she shares short videos of business advice and other truth-bomb sound bites.

This podcast was brought to you by eWebinar:

Find out how you can turn pre-recorded videos into interactive experiences with chat so you can run your demos, onboarding calls, and training sessions on autopilot, 24/7, without being there. Hop into a demo at eWebinar.com, no salesperson required.

Chris Walker bootstrapped Refine Labs from $3,000 to over $20 million in revenue in three years, becoming one of the most influential voices in B2B marketing. He had the audience, the recognition, and the revenue. Then he walked away from all of it.

In this episode, Chris and I go deep on what happens when you do everything you're supposed to do and it still doesn't feel the way you thought it would. We talk about how he rated himself a 2 out of 10 on mental and time freedom while his business was thriving, the self-doubt he carried for 33 years behind a confident public persona, how his sense of identity and purpose shifted as he came into financial success, and why he sold two companies for a fraction of what they were worth to buy back his freedom.

We also get into his 10 Dimensions of Freedom framework and how he uses it to make decisions that protect all ten, and what he's building now with ENCODED.ai.

This is a conversation about the gap between achievement and fulfillment, and what Chris did to close it. If freedom is a priority for you, this one's for you.

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(01:08) What success looked like in Chris's corporate years
(04:32) Starting Refine Labs with $3,000 and $62K in student debt
(06:30) The freest he ever felt
(07:42) When passion turned into proving he was smarter than everyone
(09:32) The Success Game: the six-step hamster wheel
(14:00) Why believing success requires suffering creates it
(17:14) A 2 out of 10 on mental and time freedom
(18:35) Realizing $100M in B2B marketing was purposeless
(20:42) "This is just who I am"
(22:11) The biggest breakthrough of his life
(27:30) How self-doubt and public confidence coexist
(28:30) Frequency: identity, beliefs, and intentions
(31:55) Money as the goal vs. the byproduct
(34:30) Why $100 million would never be enough
(39:00) Selling Refine Labs equity at 20% of its worth
(40:38) Selling his Passetto shares for $18
(43:12) The mission behind ENCODED
(45:30) Frequency training as a daily practice
(47:50) The 10 Dimensions of Freedom
(49:42) Isn't life about trade-offs?

Show notes:

• Find show notes of each episode on ProfitLed.fm. 

Connect with our host:

• Follow Melissa on LinkedIn where she shares stories & lessons from her founder journey weekly.
• Connect with Melissa at melissakwan.com and subscribe to  'your founder next door', Melissa's weekly newsletter on what it's like to build a company without an abundance of resources and friends in high places.
• Follow @themelissakwan on Instagram and YouTube where she shares short videos of business advice and other truth-bomb sound bites.

This podcast was brought to you by eWebinar:

Find out how you can turn pre-recorded videos into interactive experiences with chat so you can run your demos, onboarding calls, and training sessions on autopilot, 24/7, without being there. Hop into a demo at eWebinar.com, no salesperson required.

Hey, it's me again, Melissa, back for Season Three. I'm the cofounder and CEO of eWebinar, and your host here at ProfitLed. This episode is the backstory behind this season's theme: Passion, Profit, and Purpose, and how those three things shift as founders come into financial success.

About a year and a half ago, after 14 years as a 3x bootstrapped founder, I hit a wall. I lost my inspiration, my motivation, and somewhere along the way, myself. From the outside, everything looked great. Profitable company, loving partner, life on my own terms. But inside, I was unraveling.

What I went through forced me to look at a part of the founder journey we almost never talk about. We spend so much time on growth strategies, marketing hacks, and the numbers, and almost no time on the person running the company. But the most important variable in any startup's success is you. And what you want, what drives you, and what success even means to you doesn't stay fixed. It shifts as you evolve. Your business stays constant and demanding, but you don't.

That's what Season Three is about. The conversations we don't have enough of. The ones about what happens after you've built the thing, found some financial security, and look up and ask, now what?

If this resonates, and you're curious how other founders have navigated this human journey, this season is for you.

Show notes:

• Find show notes of each episode on ProfitLed.fm. 

Connect with our host:

• Follow Melissa on LinkedIn where she shares stories & lessons from her founder journey weekly.
• Connect with Melissa at melissakwan.com and subscribe to  'your founder next door', Melissa's weekly newsletter on what it's like to build a company without an abundance of resources and friends in high places.
• Follow @themelissakwan on Instagram and YouTube where she shares short videos of business advice and other truth-bomb sound bites.

This podcast was brought to you by eWebinar:

Find out how you can turn pre-recorded videos into interactive experiences with chat so you can run your demos, onboarding calls, and training sessions on autopilot, 24/7, without being there. Hop into a demo at eWebinar.com, no salesperson required.

It took eWebinar 16 months to go from idea to product launch, then another 36 months to hit $1M ARR; this is the core theme of this season. That's a total of 52 months from incorporation date.

You might have read about companies that get to $1M in a year, much less now with AI startups and the world riding that wave. Those are outliers and not the norm. 36 months to $1M is actually the median, even for funded companies.

“Normal” is not newsworthy and doesn’t get the media spotlight it deserves so you might feel like you’re moving too slow even when you’re in the right place.

On this season finale episode, Melissa and Todd dive into the 12 most shocking surprises on their way to $1M ARR after everything they tried, learned, and failed, which formed the foundation by which they continued to iterate on the business and product.

Thank you for tuning into Season 2 of ProfitLed!! Your support is deeply appreciated.

If you enjoy this podcast, please consider leaving us a review as that will help us continue to make episodes for you. 

Takeaways:
• Things they thought would have a huge impact, but didn’t
• Assumptions that made them think they’d get to $1M faster
• Things that took a lot more effort and time than anticipated
• Why you don’t need fancy metrics to prioritize roadmap
• Why $1M is not the magic number even though it seems like it is

Show notes:

• Find show notes of each episode on ProfitLed.fm. 

Connect with our host:

• Follow Melissa on LinkedIn where she shares stories & lessons from her founder journey weekly.
• Connect with Melissa at melissakwan.com and subscribe to  'your founder next door', Melissa's weekly newsletter on what it's like to build a company without an abundance of resources and friends in high places.
• Follow @themelissakwan on Instagram and YouTube where she shares short videos of business advice and other truth-bomb sound bites.

This podcast was brought to you by eWebinar:

Find out how you can turn pre-recorded videos into interactive experiences with chat so you can run your demos, onboarding calls, and training sessions on autopilot, 24/7, without being there. Hop into a demo at eWebinar.com, no salesperson required.

When Melissa cofounded eWebinar, she had no idea it was going to be “product-led”. Before becoming an entrepreneur, she had always been in B2B sales and biz dev roles. She was always a sales-led founder as both her previous startups were enterprise SaaS. The word “product-led growth” didn’t even exist in her vocabulary!

When she ran out of leads to sell to in her network 9 months after launching eWebinar, she asked other founders for help. You can imagine her surprise when she learned that low cost, self-serve SaaS products were sold in a completely different way. Turns out, people don’t pick up the phone for $99/month products; they prefer to do their own research and sign up at their own pace.

On this episode, Melissa and Todd dive into the 9 most important PLG (product-led growth) lessons learned as they powered through and figured things out by trying everything under the sun from playbooks, experts, and friends.

Takeaways:
• Marketing strategies that worked, and ones that didn’t
• Why you should invest in high quality, engaging content
• Why customers aren’t always your greatest source of info
• Hardships and beauty of making a self-serve SaaS startup work

Show notes:

• Find show notes of each episode on ProfitLed.fm. 

Connect with our host:

• Follow Melissa on LinkedIn where she shares stories & lessons from her founder journey weekly.
• Connect with Melissa at melissakwan.com and subscribe to  'your founder next door', Melissa's weekly newsletter on what it's like to build a company without an abundance of resources and friends in high places.
• Follow @themelissakwan on Instagram and YouTube where she shares short videos of business advice and other truth-bomb sound bites.

This podcast was brought to you by eWebinar:

Find out how you can turn pre-recorded videos into interactive experiences with chat so you can run your demos, onboarding calls, and training sessions on autopilot, 24/7, without being there. Hop into a demo at eWebinar.com, no salesperson required.

“This is fine as a lifestyle business.” Says every VC with a slight look of disdain after you pitch them your brilliant idea they don’t want to invest in. 

The industry has given “lifestyle business” such a bad reputation by commonly using it to describe non-venture scalable businesses with less ambitious founders. Only 1% of startups are venture funded, which means the other 99% are bootstrapped and by industry standard, lifestyle businesses. If anything between zero and unicorn is “lifestyle”, I’d happily take it.

eWebinar was founded intentionally as a lifestyle business, and that means choosing happiness over revenue for all decisions as it relates to the wellbeing of every team member, product, pricing, customer support, operations…

On this episode, Melissa and Todd discuss what a “lifestyle business” is for them, and the things they do to achieve the dream company that gives everyone involved (not just the founders) a great lifestyle.

Takeaways:
• How the industry and VCs (negatively) perceive lifestyle businesses
• Melissa’s 10 non-negotiables to happiness that led her to found eWebinar
• Intentional decisions we make to achieve our dream lifestyle business
• How choosing happiness over revenue impact product, operations and team
• The culture we try to create at eWebinar and what it’s like to work here

Show notes:

• Find show notes of each episode on ProfitLed.fm. 

Connect with our host:

• Follow Melissa on LinkedIn where she shares stories & lessons from her founder journey weekly.
• Connect with Melissa at melissakwan.com and subscribe to  'your founder next door', Melissa's weekly newsletter on what it's like to build a company without an abundance of resources and friends in high places.
• Follow @themelissakwan on Instagram and YouTube where she shares short videos of business advice and other truth-bomb sound bites.

This podcast was brought to you by eWebinar:

Find out how you can turn pre-recorded videos into interactive experiences with chat so you can run your demos, onboarding calls, and training sessions on autopilot, 24/7, without being there. Hop into a demo at eWebinar.com, no salesperson required.