Hope deferred.  Are we making promises that we can't keep?  Maybe we are not aware of the things that we say are taken as a promise... 
Proverbs 13:12 Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life.

Word John could not say, reveres.  Yikes.  From 13:13  Whoever despises the world brings destruction on himself, but he who reveres the commandment will be rewarded.

Pursue wisdom and your wife.  Yes husbands, pursue your wife all the days of your marriage.