* Four things our words can do:

* 1) Turn away wrath (vs 1).

* Soft words soften hearts - it takes down walls of defenses.

* 2) Help people understand (vs 2).

* The best way to make a point is to tell a story - it helps people understand.

* Vulnerability is the key to connection.

* 3) Bring life and healing (vs 4).

* “Soothing” means “healing.”

* Your words bring life or death, healing or hurt.

* 4) Help people discern (vs 6).

* They not only speak truth but spread it, like separating wheat from chaff.

* Wise words help people understand the difference between right and wrong.

* Your words are controlled by your heart.

* The power to do the above four things only comes from a clean and pure heart.