We talk about the typical African lavish wedding and if weddings should always be expensive affairs? We discuss the influence of BellaNaija and the contrast with reality, which may be causing couples to focus on a day of celebration to impress the guests while forgetting that there is a long road ahead after the wedding day. We have with us experienced and sort after wedding planners (Alex Aggrey and Beatrice Yega) and Onyeka who had her wedding featured on BellaNaija. They share with us important aspects of a wedding and how it should be viewed with the right lenses to give your marriage the best chance of survival in the long run.