This message explores the concept of time and God's timing in the context of suffering and unmet expectations. Pastor Chris reflects on the emotional weight of "What if?" questions and the pain that often arises from unfulfilled desires, emphasizing that unmet expectations can lead to a persistent, low-level sorrow. Through the story of Lazarus' resurrection (John 11:1-45), the sermon illustrates how Jesus’ actions—waiting before healing Lazarus—highlight a divine purpose beyond human understanding. Jesus responds to both Mary and Martha differently, offering truth to Martha and empathy to Mary, revealing His compassion and divine purpose. The message encourages believers to trust that Jesus’ timing is perfect, even when it doesn't align with our expectations. It reminds us that while death and grief are inevitable, through Christ, there is hope beyond the sorrow, as He is the resurrection and the life.