Pussy Whispers

"Why does it feel like a year lasts a lifetime when you're in the thick of a 'Tower Moment'?"

In this episode of the Pussy Whispers Podcast, I'm joined by my dear friend and intuitive tea leaf reader, Michaela.

We dive deep into the messy, beautiful reality of learning a "new state of being"—moving from the "I've got this" survival muscle into the soft, vulnerable power of receiving care.

If you've ever felt frustrated by your own timeline or wondered why your intuition seems "blocked" during seasons of grief, this conversation is for you.

We explore how to maintain boundaries as a healer, the difference between friendship and "free coaching," and why sometimes your life has to rupture so you can finally meet the depth of your own well.

In this episode, we discuss:

0:00 - Why the "Healing Journey" can't be rushed.

02:45 - Introducing Michaela: From Tarot to Tea Leaves.

05:10 - The challenge of being your own guide.

08:20 - Setting boundaries as an Intimacy Coach & Psychic.

12:45 - Why "Self-Responsibility" is the ultimate aphrodisiac for the nervous system.

18:30 - Learning to ask for help after a lifetime of independence.

25:00 - Digging up "old grief": Why the threads of the past get tugged now.

Connect with Mikayla: https://www.instagram.com/lilithrosei... / @lilithroseintuitive

Work with Me: www.tareaselixir.com / theflowershopdance

In this episode I look back two years since my breakup and share what I learned, how I thought it was going to go, and how it actually went.

Plus, here are three earlier episodes if you want to listen before or after this episode to experience the entire healing arc of the heartbreak process.

One month after breakup: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0XNu3hm9103kAjVxAFMfo3?si=819ed6c2733e482d

Conscious Uncoupling interview with my friend Ann: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5tAk52ICTZ0YjBOELeQXWx?si=21bd4470d1b44bb8

One year later: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2bpEhIaIo9wazfYBeYUvgC?si=f6f63fb3236c49ce

If you liked this episode and want to see more raw and intimate episodes, please consider giving me a review and supporting my podcast in anyway that feels true to you.

In this episode, I spill the T on my Burning Man story, which I call my "EpeePhany."

Enjoy me sharing the inside scoop on my shame healing journey that led me to becoming a specialized shame healer! Turns out, peeing on forbidden places can be liberating AF!

If you want to book a session with me, you can do so on my website

www.tareaselixir.com

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Tarea spills the T on her second queer awakening and what that is like as an intimacy coach to go from hetero to queer sex, what she notice was different and what was the same.

"Honestly, I feel SO shy to share this episode"

Why?

Because I'm actually quiet sassy and blunt in it and very raw and uncensored.

It was one of the few episodes I made that was less about teaching you (although it's still very educational)

And more about "spilling the T" out of pure joy and aliveness for this topic I share on.

The topic of my second queer awakening, hetero to queer sex, and everything I noticed in the process, from my very specific knowledge background as an intimacy coach.

Because when I started my career, I was in a monogamous hetero very long term relationship. And opening up into the queer dating world after that was so fascinating to me on so many levels of discovery.

I felt like the lesbian David Attenborough.

Anywho, this is me being honest and vulnerable AF, in a very different flavor episode 2 on season 2 of my pussy whispers podcast.

I hope you enjoy! And hopefully there will be more gain than risk in me sharing 🙈

So when you listen, please share the love with your likes, shares, and comments for my bravery and entertainment 🤣

Honestly, when I rewatched it, I was fully immersed in it as if I was the audience, it was a wild feeling.

Welcome back to season 2! In this episode, I walk you through the in-depth process of an inner child healing session using the tools: parts work, felt sense, and gestalt theory. I offer clarity and insight into inner child healing and some of the terms you might hear in the therapeutic world, to give you a greater understanding and an informed lens for your own inner child healing process. My intention in this episode is also to offer a space rooted in love so that your inner child can feel heard, seen, and understood. I hope this video offers you a path forward and an opportunity to understand your inner child a little bit more and integrate them into your life with your adult self as the healthy parent and leader.

What does it truly mean to listen to your intuition and trust yourself through life's most difficult transitions?

I, your host Tarea, take you through the messy, powerful, and heart-wrenching realities of my own personal grief, heartbreak, and courage to rebuild. AKA surviving the hardest year of my life.

What does it take to release control, toss out the script, and trust that life will catch you even when you're freefalling? I'm not gonna lie — it's terrifying AF. Raw. Uncomfortable. But it's also the most liberating thing I've ever done for myself. Leaving that relationship, saying goodbye to my home, walking away from the safety net of a job… it cracked me open in ways I only had a faint whisper that I needed. And somewhere in that chaos, I started to find pieces of me that I had forgotten. Pieces that had been quietly waiting for me to come back.

In this episode I share the wisdom that came from fully meeting my brokenness to reclaim my wholeness, the good, the bad, and the ugly. I share how somatic and trauma healing allowed me to hold myself in the darkest of moments, honor my intuition, and step into a new chapter of self-acceptance, love, and freedom.

Whether you're navigating loss, seeking a deeper connection to your intuition, or searching for clarity and empowerment, this episode offers permission to feel, grow, and transform on your own terms.

Tune in to explore themes of:

• Trusting your intuition amidst fear and uncertainty

• The raw process of somatic and emotional healing

• Rebuilding a life rooted in self-love, pleasure, and authenticity

For anyone caught in the fire of transformation or standing on the edge of unknowns, this episode is a beacon of hope and empowerment.

Connect with Tarea Elixir:

• Visit my website to explore offerings for somatic healing and sacred ceremonies

• Follow on Instagram @tareaselixir for more insights and inspiration

Remember, you're never alone on this journey. 🌿

Unlock the sacred power of your heart and pussy Learn how to align your intuition with your pleasure, creating a connection that fosters self-love, healing, and authentic expression. In this episode, I share tips, guided reflections, and practices to help you step into your divine pussy energy and reclaim your inner wisdom. This wisdom is channeled for all pussy bodied beings and those with the energy of pussy. All of my work is trans-inclusive and a safe space for my rainbow community. I work to create a more secure, safe, and pleasure-filled world that is rooted in love. It is my great passion and joy to share this work and bring security to areas of this life that have been mistreated, misunderstood, and oppressed.

To work with me you can book a free call or session by going to my website www.tareaselixir.com

If you struggle with feelings of shame and guilt that hold you back from liking who you are or making choices, this system is designed to disrupt old trauma patterns of shame to help you enjoy who you are and trust yourself to make decisions.

Identifying your North Star can help shed the weight of shame and so you can have access to your full potential. In this video, we'll explore the concept of a North Star and how it can help you overcome shame, build confidence, and cultivate a more compassionate relationship with yourself.

Fashion is more than just clothing; it's an expression of who you are and what you stand for. When you dress intuitively, you tap into your inner self, allowing your wardrobe to reflect your true essence.

You're not just picking clothes; you're curating a visual representation of your passions and purpose. Intuitive fashion empowers you to make choices that resonate with your spirit.

Choosing your expression items more intuitively can lead you many places. It could help heal your inner child. It could reclaim a lost part or your power. It could even lead you to a hobby or new career that you might not have found by sticking to what you have always known.

Your intuition is a wise helper that unfortunately has a really dark history of being shamed, persecuted, and criminalized for using. So there needs to be repair work to build up that trust and safety again. So the world can be a safer and more playful space with intuition on our side.

Fashion and things like scents or household furniture decorations are such a fun and safe way to explore trusting yourself. The risks are low and payout huge.

Your life becomes way more intentional and ritualistic which ultimately will lead you to designing it the way you want and experience more happiness in your mind, body, and soul.

To book a private session with me to help you in this discovery, head to www.tareaselixir.com

In weeks episode I talk to you about energetic hygiene and the value and importance in having energetic boundaries.

If you are a highly sensitive person, emotional person or if you just don't fit into "normie" boxes, you may find yourself feeling even more sensitive and I want you to know that you can use this sensitivity as a superpower and have more aliveness for life.

You have a gift and I want to help you harness your energy and take care of yourself.

This is going to help you to keep going every day without feeling so heavy, without feeling stuck, and without feeling like you have to take responsibility for every person and all beings on the planet.

If you feel like you're having a block, a stagnancy, or a stuckness in your energetic body and don't know what energy is yours or what is somebody else's, then let me know what's going on for you in the comments so that I can either answer you specifically or make another video or another talk on more nuanced experiences because there's so much here to practice.

There is a need to constantly refine and re-attune to the sensitivities of who you are, especially if you've lived your life masking or hiding who you are.

If you want an energy clearing session or to learn about cultivating stronger and healthier boundaries, you can book a 1:1 session with me on my website www.tareaselixir.com