In this episode, Claude and Renee discuss the importance of "putting on your mask first" when it comes to parenting and relationships; how you can only help others when you have first taken care of yourself. Also, natural consequences are anything that happens naturally, with no adult interference, and how taking a "hands-off" approach to raising our teen has made for more effective parenting. Plus we give advice to a listener who has a boyfriend that is less goal-oriented and contemplating ending their relationship as a result of their lack of drive.