SHOW NOTES – Q&A 22, Season 2 Melissa writes: “Dear Panty Kickers, I want to see my ex one more time for closure, is that a bad idea?”

Carolyn says:

* Don’t do it!* You cannot ask the person who did the damage to feel the damage.* What would the perfect scenario be if you could sit down and get closure – it’s not going to happen!* You broke up for a reason, let time heal your wounds.

Becca says:

* You need a lot of space and time before seeking closure of any kind.* Try to see that the person CANNOT give you what you need, instead of thinking that they are holding it back.* You’ll never be able to force the person to say what you want them to say, and even if you can, you’ll know they don’t mean it!* If you are seeking forgiveness of yourself or someone else, give it time and then be open and honest about why you’re reaching out- now that’s the kind of closure we could all benefit from!

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See you next week for a full length episode: Real Life Romance

xoxo Carolyn and Becca