Q&A 37 – The courage to look for different answers

When we explore the inside-out nature of life, especially as it relates to resolving an overeating habit, it can take some courage to be looking in this direction for answers. In this episode, we explore three instances where that courage may be required.

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Show Notes

* What I mean by looking for ‘different’ answers

* Three instances where courage may be required in this exploration

* Personal examples of courage

Transcript of episode

Hello explorers, and welcome to Q&A; episode 37 of Unbroken. I’m Alexandra Amor. 

Today I wanted to talk about something that’s not so much a question, but it is an observation about the courage it takes to look in a different direction for answers. And in our case, of course, it’s specifically about an unwanted habit. 

I’ve been mulling this over for a few days, and thought it would be a good thing to explore, It might help us to be a little bit more gentle with ourselves as we’re going on this exploration. So that’s definitely the intention. 

So, why do I say courage? 

I’m going to be the nerd that talks about the root or the origin of the word courage, and it has to do with heart actually. So the word cor I think, is the Latin spelling of heart. And cour I think is the French word for heart. 

Courage really has to do with, it seems to me, pursuing a heartfelt desire or following our hearts. 

And, for me, that’s definitely what this exploration of the Inside-Out understanding has been, especially as it relates to overcoming an over eating habit. So that’s why I chose that word courage. 

And then when I talk about looking in a different direction, what do I mean by different?

This is why it takes some courage. And that’s because I feel like our culture is not oriented in a way that supports this kind of exploration. Through no one’s fault, that’s the way that we live our lives, and the way our lives appear, is as though they work from the outside in, as though our experiences have an effect on, like chip away at our well-being or our resilience and that kind of thing. And that we have to be in order to be resilient, or well, we have to do that in spite of what’s going on. 

When, instead, we look at things from an inside out perspective, we’re always coming from the foundational understanding that we are whole and well and resilient. 

Not in spite of life, but innately that those qualities are always there. With no exceptions, every single person has this foundation, this core, the center of themselves, the essence of themselves, which is always well and whole. That spark of light, we could say in each person never goes away, no matter what has gone on in their lives. 

But because in a mainstream way, we don’t look at life that way, when we are exploring this understanding and beginning to see how life works from the inside out it can be. So I guess there were three ways that I saw that it can require courage. 

The first way is that that approach really flies in the face of how most people believe that life works.