Most men are taught to chase numbers.

Dates. Matches. Attention.

But quantity doesn’t build confidence — clarity does.

In this episode, David Meessen breaks down what modern dating actually looks like for men who want more than surface-level attraction. We talk about confidence, leadership in relationships, red flags vs green flags, and why most dating advice pushes men in the wrong direction.

From overcoming insecurity and fear of rejection to understanding how men and women experience dating differently, this conversation goes deep — without losing its edge. We also play a red flag / green flag game, challenge common dating myths, and bring real female perspectives into the conversation.

This episode isn’t about tricks or pickup lines. It’s about becoming the kind of man who attracts the right partner — and knows how to lead a relationship without control, manipulation, or ego.

If you’re done chasing quantity and ready to build something real, this one’s for you.