TILF (Thoughts I'd Like to Finish)

Queer & ADHD: The Intersection Deep Dive | Episode 3


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In celebration of Pride Month—this episode dives into queerness through the ADHD lens, and things get gloriously messy, affirming, and 💥 chaotic.

We unpack:

  • 🧠 Stats that stun: LGBTQ+ folks are 2–4× more likely to get an ADHD diagnosis, and ADHD folks report 2–5× more same-sex experiences.
  • 💬 Real talk: Bi with imposter syndrome, pan identity shifts, and the emotional wild ride of discovering yourself late.
  • ADHD x curiosity: How impulsivity, risk-taking, and curiosity drive queer exploration.
  • 🛡️ Intersectional invisibility: Why people stay closeted online, lose followers when queer, and still fight internal “not enough” voices.
  • 🌈 Representation matters: Getting loud, ripping off the rainbow-colored bandaid, and why we owe each other that visibility.

🎧 Thick with heart, banter, and unapologetic revelations—this is a raw unpacking of identity, belonging, fear, and liberation.

If you've ever felt too queer, not queer enough, or just... uniquely wired—you’re gonna feel this episode.

The Pod

TILF is the group chat you never knew you needed—where ADHD brains, hot takes, and heart-deep convos collide. Hosted by Dani Donovan, Chris Wang, and Ari Scott, this unfiltered trio says the quiet parts out loud, dives headfirst into the chaos, and somehow makes existential spirals feel like a party.

For all things TILF, including episodes, updates, and more 👉 ⁠https://beacons.ai/tilfpod⁠

The Hosts

Dani Donovan, Creator of The Anti-Planner and ADHD comics 👉 ⁠ADHDDD.com⁠ & ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@danidonovan⁠

Chris Wang, CEO of Shimmer ADHD Coaching 👉 ⁠www.shimmer.care⁠ & ⁠https://www.instagram.com/adhd.christal⁠

Ari Scott, The ADHD Entrepreneur 👉 ⁠https://www.adhdinbiz.com/⁠ & ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_adhd_entrepreneur/⁠

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