In this episode of the Unapologaytic podcast, host Pierre speaks with Dr Jason Durant, author of Boy from the North Country, about their shared experiences of growing up in small communities and grappling with masculinity and acceptance as gay men. They discuss the pervasive sense of alienation amongst gay men, even in tolerant places like New York City. Dr Durant delves into the impacts of internalised homophobia, the grief of missed opportunities, and the ongoing journey of self-acceptance. He emphasises the necessity of facing uncomfortable emotions, fostering supportive relationships, and the daily commitment to self-care and personal growth. They touch upon the importance of authentic pride, the healing process of revisiting and comforting past traumas, and strategies for processing anger. Dr Durant also shares the importance of journalling and building a compassionate community to navigate the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:54 Discussing the Book: Boy from the North Country

03:27 Challenges of Growing Up Gay 

11:34 Healing and Self-Acceptance 

19:36 Community and Support 

38:30 Processing Anger and Embracing Yourself 

41:22 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Hi I’m Pierre. I’m the founder of the ethical gay brand Unapologaytic as well as a male form photographer.

I want to use this podcast to explore LGBTQ+ culture, art and wellness and use this platform to share our stories and struggles. No matter who we are we’ve all got something to share and learn from each other.

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