Here's the thing; both are going to happen to you. Both are going to happen to you frequently. Which is more detrimental? When you create these expectations of the perfect scenario or person, whatever it may be, and then something happens that shakes that foundation? Or when you are completely blindsided by an event or situation that you never even thought about, that has nothing to do with your path or day to day life? Both suck. Both suck very much. Which is the steeper hole to climb out of? 

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