Quingology

Watch your mouth & your attitude. Arrogance can mess up opportunities‼️😩 You never know whose watching you & who God has sent on a divine assignment to bless you. Don't mess it up✨

Being in business for yourself you have one Boss & that's God. He's the only one that promotes or demotes you. Now you may encounter test that determines how you level up or down. With that being said, self discipline yourself in such a way that you're always leveling up & not delaying yourself. Nothing is wrong with delay, it's also lessons & purpose in that but if you look at it through the wrong lenses you'll become frustrated. ✨

Are you Single, Dating, Courting or Married. All the extra stuff is just extra stuff. Men stop trying to cuff women without cuffing them & women don't throw all your eggs in one basket. Date & explore ✨

The things that's dealbreakers for us, about ourselves is what we may need to consider working on. If you don't like it, why are your expectations for someone else liking it so high?

Jealousy sounds bad but it can be pretty mild. It gives a disappointed vibe like you feel let down, while on the other hand Envy, can be very malicious, competitive, sabotaging & evil.

Some people end up in unfortunate situations & your heart leads you to help. Even then you're forced to be an adult & handle your bills so hold people accountable to hold their end of the bar. Other than that stand firm on keep people out of your household, save you & them that portion of drama.

Where you see error in people is permission for you to do better. You can not try to change people. You can try to correct them. If you see me doing wrong & you don't like it, that's permission for you to do the right thing. Be a bomb you & stay in your lane. Judge rightfully but don't be judge mental. Help peoples character & their way of thinking (mentality) don't come for how they look.

God won't give you pain that you can't handle, lessons that you're not capable of receiving or blessings that you can't handle & not ready for. Pain is for purpose & so are lessons & blessings.

The date is already set for you to get what you need to get & be who you are called to be. There's not much you can do to speed up the process & it's a whole lot you can do to delay it. The promise is guaranteed, just enjoy the ride there & collect all the "nuggets" (lessons & blessings) with grace, that you receive in the mist or on your way to your promise.

You have the choice of rather you want to continue this cycle of toxicity or where you draw the line & say enough is enough.