We start with a conversation I had with a man from The Gambia. He bluntly, but kindly, tests me on what helps and what hurts when trying to fix the issues people face in Africa. His view on what helps and hurts may surprise some as he rebukes conventional wisdom. However, we both agreed that Big Man Syndrome (detailed through a story where I get whipped in South Sudan) is a major impediment to helping others.  He challenges others to look beyond lions, AIDS and slavery when discussing Africa and see the real potential of Africa. His views help us look at alternative solutions to our problems.