If you were raised to believe saying no is rude, this episode is for you. In this follow-up to our conversation on real self-care, Ashley unpacks how Southern politeness and people-pleasing can quietly lead to burnout—especially for moms. You’ll learn why self-care doesn’t stick without boundaries, why “being nice” often means self-abandonment, and how to set limits that protect your nervous system without losing your kindness. Because boundaries aren’t mean—they’re maintenance.